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Is this love and should she tell her?

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Crunchie673 · 17/07/2023 21:51

I had a discussion with my friend today, and I can be a little bit biased at times so wanted an outsider’s opinion because it’s been playing on my mind…

She’s been dating a woman since February/March time, they aren’t officially in a relationship yet and due to long distance, they’ve only spent time together once so far but speak all the time and video call regularly and so on.

She is convinced that she loves her, I’ve never been in a same sex relationship before so I don’t know if they tend to move quicker etc (?) but is this likely to be real love and should she actually tell her that she has these feelings or is it too soon?

OP posts:
GreyCarpet · 18/07/2023 07:39

What's it got to do with you?

Would yiu be asking this of she were involved with a man? Or is it the novelty of it being a gay relationship that has you so interested?

Wfhandbored · 18/07/2023 07:47

4 months isn't out of the ordinary to fall in love

JupiterFortified · 18/07/2023 07:49

They’ve only met once? If so I’d be very surprised if it was love yet.

HermeticDawn · 18/07/2023 07:54

Why do you need to decide, though?

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