So my partner is out of work due to being on probation (he had to quit his job at a back) due to this. His been off a year but last year was given 80k from the sale of his family home and he had other savings that took him over 100k in total. He has been paying the rent (£800) and some grocery whilst I have been managing all the bills, majority of the things/clothes for our toddler 1 year old and paying for groceries. Now, I’ve returned to work this month but for the last month or so his been telling me his running out of money and I need to manage rent. I said that’s fine but yesterday his mentioned I need to manage rent, bills, grocery shop and obvs the expenditures for my toddler all of my one wage of £1600? Now here’s the thing, I don’t really believe his running out of money, I mean how? We don’t go out, (we do order quite a bit of takeaway) but rent and takeaway won’t make him run out of 100k+. He doesn’t have addictions except smoking weed but obvs not 100k worth of weed in a year lol. I now feel so pressured, I been thinking how will I manage all them finances and maintain my child? I like buying him stuff and managing his upkeep now I’m feeling so depressed thinking he will get less how will I afford it all? Our energy bill alone is £300 a month. His just being a stay at home dad, he said he will sign on and maybe find a local job at a restaurant somewhere but he isn’t pushing to because I know he still has his savings which is fine but surely It’s weird his saying he has no money now. And also when he said I had to pay bills when on maternity I agreed now I’m having to pay everything wtf