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Just confirm this for me please

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3BSHKATS · 11/07/2023 17:05

🚩 Called an asian tele sales person a degoratory term
🚩 it’s different being gay if its a woman, wouldn’t want your son doing xyz described act - i have a son
🚩 Watches porn, loves it, watched from aged 8 is sure my son will soon. Son is a child

Im not wrong am I ? Hes a 🔔 end

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DataNotLore · 11/07/2023 17:09

What?

category12 · 11/07/2023 17:13

No, a racist, homophobic porn-hound is a real catch.

3BSHKATS · 11/07/2023 17:14

Do you know what sometimes I just wonder whether I’m being to oversensitive. You just lose perspective. But honestly, I’ve never been so revolted.

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category12 · 11/07/2023 17:40

No, it's not a case of being over-sensitive.

Why would you want to be ok with a man who denigrates others for their race or sexuality, and who has poor boundaries about children watching porn?

Epidote · 11/07/2023 17:52

He is a price, isn't he?
You may even miss some other red flags.
You are right he is not a nice person

Nanna50 · 11/07/2023 17:54

He watched porn from age 8?

3BSHKATS · 11/07/2023 17:59

Nanna50 · 11/07/2023 17:54

He watched porn from age 8?

Apparently.

He was rambling on I just went really quiet. And he said oh you’re really uncomfortable aren’t you? I love listening to you squirm. At which point, I just made my excuses and hung up.

literally blows my mind, he’s got a daughter who is half black, he’s got a daughter ffs

Where do these people come from?

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BlastedPimples · 11/07/2023 18:02

From what swamp did you dig up this foul creature?

dooneyousmugelf · 11/07/2023 18:05

Sounds a complete and utter cunt.

Canyoucheckonme · 11/07/2023 18:07

Avoid! You're not over sensitive, you're just a decent human being.

Bogeyes · 11/07/2023 18:08

Avoid

Zarataralara · 11/07/2023 18:08

One to throw back in the pond. He sounds vile, made my skin crawl just reading your posts.🤢

3BSHKATS · 11/07/2023 18:10

I’ve blocked him on everything.

It just blows my mind I was having a little Facebook stalk of him yesterday and 80 people wished him a happy birthday and I suppose that’s kind of what made me doubt myself.

he seems really popular

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Unexpectedlysinglemum · 11/07/2023 18:12

Your son will unfortunately become like this guy if he lives with him- run for the hills and find a person/people with values like yours to be around your son.

On the off chance you miss the guy there are literally thousands out there just like him

Nanna50 · 11/07/2023 18:21

How long have you known him?

Facebook birthdays are no indicator because most people just respond to a reminder or prompt. They may not have had contact for years.

determinedtomakethiswork · 11/07/2023 18:21

Who is this twat?

Gerrataere · 11/07/2023 18:46

Just sicked a bit in my mouth. He’s the very definition of vulgar isn’t he. Yuck, sounds like a grown Jay from The Inbetweeners, obviously with the same stupid teenage attitude. Block on everything, don’t even be tempted to peek.

I would have been apocalyptic at the son watching porn comment as well, I’d have certainly said ‘I’m hoping to raise a better man than one who gets off at videos of women being abused for some sicko’s sexual gratification’.

3BSHKATS · 11/07/2023 19:00

To be honest, I think that he was so thick that if I had of even gone there, and given him a speech, it would’ve been beyond him to understand.

I mean, how are you can be in a relationship with somebody who is Jamaican have a child with them and then make those comments about somebody from an Indian background I think demonstrates there’s not a lot going on upstairs.

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GrazingSheep · 11/07/2023 19:01

How did you get involved with him?

3BSHKATS · 11/07/2023 19:05

GrazingSheep · 11/07/2023 19:01

How did you get involved with him?

Tinder.

had a couple of months of going back-and-forth messaging each other and then calling on the phone actually daily to be honest.

At first, it was light entertainment, and he was quite funny. He’s made a few comments about how he likes to talk dirty and swear in bed and I thought alright, is that a dealbreaker? I don’t know I don’t like it, but not currently sleeping with you so not a problem.

But this is just popped up today from nowhere. I guess the mask slipped

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HumphreysCorner · 11/07/2023 19:15

Bye bye ?

3BSHKATS · 12/07/2023 09:51

100% it puts youright off OLD

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longwayoff · 12/07/2023 09:54

You should have left him in the bin where you found him. Its definitely time to return him there.

Dullardmullard · 12/07/2023 09:57

🤢

3BSHKATS · 12/07/2023 11:13

He’s back in the swamp. For some unsuspecting woman to pick up unfortunately

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