Currently on a lovely holiday with DC. They are two and four Nearly divorced ex husband had multiple affairs, some with married women and most recently broke up another family with his infidelity. We are separated with email only contact due to abuse on his part. He has requested to video the call the children on holiday. I sent an email confirming safe arrival and a time when we would be available for video call. I am reluctant to let him see where we are staying as he had suggested before about coming and taking the children for a day of contact which wasn’t going to happen.
I loathed to continue checking my email as this holiday is respite for me too after horrendous abuse. But yet I have now had two separate emails changing the video call time twice with no reason as to why.
It would be a short call I can’t see why he can’t just an accommodate as before he was laying the guilt on thick to the four year old about missing him.
What would you do?
Many thanks.