I have name changed for this post.
After a lot of thought and consideration I have come to a last attempt to salvage my relationship. Deep down I know it is unlikely to work but I have to give it just one final push so I can look at me kids and tell them honestly that I really really tried.
I won’t go into the details on this thread but essentially I am give the relationship 6 months to a year to get better with an effort from myself to attend relationship counselling and have better communication with him. If I still get nothing back, I am done and want to be prepared to end things.
I need to know how I can be prepared.
we have no joint accounts so my plan is to put money aside and if I have to leave the money is there and if things work out we have some savings to do something nice with. What else should I have ‘in a row’?