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Porn

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Mummytoofour · 06/07/2023 13:17

Me & Hubby have been married 15yrs… a few months ago I went to use his phone and as I went on safari it was switched to ‘private search’ and the website open was porn hub i believe. Questioned him and he said it must have been a pop up! I let it go & didn’t bring it up again.

now last week he was using his phone and didn’t realise I walked into the room and on his phone again was a porn site. He quickly got rid of the website and turned it off! I bought it up to him and he said again it was a pop up! If I’m honest I don’t believe him.

Theres a new colleague started at his work place and whenever I mention her name he acts abit strange.

What do I do from here 😏

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PousseyNotMoira · 10/08/2023 23:56

So, he walked holding your foot and you just lay there and said nothing? Or am I misunderstanding?

FamilyLife2point4 · 11/08/2023 01:01

Have I seen / caught my DH watching porn - no, do I believe he watches it - yes (he knew what squirting was before I did lol - I read it on MN and he could tell me all about it, I was a bit taken aback and told my DSis who said ‘all men watch porn’ - then DH wanted to try it since I was talking about it).
Does DH randomly shave down there - yes, usually hoping for a blowjob.
Could he be exploring his sexuality / fetishes - little foot fetish maybe? Could it be foot porn and he’s embarrassed but now feeling a little more brave since you’ve kinda caught him?
Its the lying that would bother me the most in all this tbh.

TheAverageJoanne · 11/08/2023 01:30

CurlewKate · 06/07/2023 13:55

Porn should be an issue. Who wants to be with a man who wanks over exploited, potentially trafficked women?

Well said Kate.

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Mummytoofour · 11/08/2023 08:30

FamilyLife2point4 · 11/08/2023 01:01

Have I seen / caught my DH watching porn - no, do I believe he watches it - yes (he knew what squirting was before I did lol - I read it on MN and he could tell me all about it, I was a bit taken aback and told my DSis who said ‘all men watch porn’ - then DH wanted to try it since I was talking about it).
Does DH randomly shave down there - yes, usually hoping for a blowjob.
Could he be exploring his sexuality / fetishes - little foot fetish maybe? Could it be foot porn and he’s embarrassed but now feeling a little more brave since you’ve kinda caught him?
Its the lying that would bother me the most in all this tbh.

The lying really does bother me, but now all these changes are really getting to me too. Why after 15yrs marriage would he shave down there, he’s got a BJ even before this.
I’ll abit pissed off and don’t know what is coming next!
does watching porn also indicate someone could be cheating?

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Mummytoofour · 11/08/2023 08:31

PousseyNotMoira · 10/08/2023 23:56

So, he walked holding your foot and you just lay there and said nothing? Or am I misunderstanding?

No that’s exactly it! He was doing it under the cover, I was laying on the opposite side to him as the fan was in that direction.
I didn’t say anything, I didn’t know what to say/do! I’m actually quite disgusted

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