Hello everyone, hope you’re well :)
So I think this could just be me been absolutely ridiculous and over thinking just to say that first lol. I’ve always had vibes that my partner could be bi or maybe bi-curious just as she’s said a few things nothing major but she said she’s when she has watched porn its lesbian porn and made some other comments before.
Tuesday we was on a walk chatting and got talking and she told me about this weird women that ‘creeped’ her out at her old job as this women sent her inappropriate pics and came on to her over message and tried it on etc and she said she was freaked out and blocked her.
Since then it’s had me thinking all week that maybe there is more to that situation and maybe she actually did have a thing with this women so I asked her and she said absolutely not it made her creeped out and she’s absolutely not bi. Last night we was having flirty banter over text and I jokingly said winding her up that I’d go get the ‘creepy’ women round next time she’s over so she can get it on with her just winding her up and she replied “ Already been there Shame you weren't around to watch” so obviously I thought she was winding me up back so I went a long with it and asked what they got up to etc and she was winding me up saying “ use your imagination I’m not telling” so I kept going along and then she wrote me a few big in detail erotic paragraphs (you can get what I mean lol) on what they did and how it happened.
So I was very shocked and of course knew in back of my head she was obviously making it up and it was totally fictional to turn me on as she probably thought it was turning me on and some fantasy I had. But it actually did you opposite and made really start questioning everything. So I asked her after firstly if she’s not bi how can she write such a dirty paragraph about sex with another women, as if I did that about another man it would make me feel sick and if it really was true.
She told me absolutely not and she only said it cos I wouldn’t stop going on and it actually was making her sick saying it and wishes she didn’t.
So I’m slightly confused, was it just harmless fun and her trying to turn me on or could she possibly be bi and she’s just trying to cover it.
Thanks :)