Odd cheating suspicion?

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Interested to know what you would make of this as it has really set my spidey senses tingling…

Basically I’ve noticed that whenever we watch a drama on TV and someone mentions cheating, or an affair, DH will squirm quite uncomfortably. He will literally go from happy and relaxed to twitching at the first mention of it and it makes me wonder if he’s so uncomfortable because he’s cheated in the past.

It makes me very uncomfortable. Relationship now is good but there have been some ups and downs over the years which makes me wonder if there is more to it.

I can’t just ask him outright because a) I’d possibly look batshit mental and b) he would inevitably deny it anyway…

Anyone experienced this or am I totally insane?

But to go back to your OP, I would be very suspicious too.

To me, it sounds more like he has no time or respect for anyone who cheats and that's why it makes him uncomfortable.

You know him best though, so I'm sure that if there is more of a backstory to his behaviour then you know the answer.