Hi. My OH works in Germany in the week so I am at home with the children all week. I trust him 100%, he is not the 'laddy' type of bloke and is quite and mainly a workaholic, working all the hours god sends.
Our computer has been playing up and sometimes when I sign into my email account it comes up with an email from his account and vise versa, so a few weeks ago it happened to him and he questioned me. Well over the weekend this email came up that OH had sent to a friend. 'there is a huge strip club and the usual filth street, we can do some damage.' I am a very insecure person anyway and my brain is always making things out to be huge problems, I am so sick of thinking like this. I asked him about what damage he was going to do and he said it was bloke talk and he was joking. Which is did think he was joking, I mean he probably will go in the strip club but he is trying to look like the 'big man' by saying that to his mate as he is single.
Can someone please reasure me and tell me it's nothing. Him being away all week is realy cutting me up now and I hate it and always presume he is up to the worst.
Thanks for your help.