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I dreamt about another man

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Forrestero · 10/02/2023 21:33

There was a man at work who kept giving me the eye last year. I just ignored it as he was married. He still looks at me that way and I just remain brief and polite. Last night I had a dream that he saw me in a summer dress and sandals and ran after me. He said he needed to speak to me. He pulled me in and we started kissing and I did not stop. I did think about my boyfriend during the kiss how it's not fair as he been cheated on before.

Then man from work saw his wife and he quickly stopped, she didn't see us kissing and he acted normal around her. I thought how awful he acted innocent t around his wife. I feel guilty as I should not be dreaming about another man when I have a boyfriend. I am very happy with my boyfriend so I don't know why I had this dream.

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caringcarer · 10/02/2023 23:24

Shortly after my divorce I have to say I dreamed about murdering my ex at least twice a week for months. In my dreams he died about 20 times and in different ways. Does not mean I'd ever try to kill him in real life because that would hurt my children and I'd end up in jail. I actually think it was therapeutic to get rid of anger and vengeance and IRL no one got hurt.

GetOffMyDoorJack · 10/02/2023 23:46

If I could go back to the beginning of my education I would totally study dreams, mine are fascinating! Last night I dreamt I was Kate Middleton and about to marry Wills. He'd gone missing and I was trying to find him with my maid of honour who actually was Kate Middleton!

OnTheRunWithMannyMontana · 11/02/2023 00:33

It's a dream, honestly just forget it. I have very weird dreams sometimes involving other men. It doesn't mean that I don't love DH or want to act the dreams out with other men!

OnTheRunWithMannyMontana · 11/02/2023 00:35

ChatInMyFlat · 10/02/2023 22:07

I dream my cat takes over the world by shooting everyone.

It's just a dream.

That's a brilliant dream 😂😂

Once when I was on weird medication I dreamt I was trying to save a box full of kittens from a pink ring doughnut with sprinkles, arms and legs and giant teeth that wanted to eat them all 😂

Tuilpmouse · 11/02/2023 22:07

LadyJ2023 · 10/02/2023 22:58

Jeeez you lot do some weird dreaming lol can't say I ever had dreams like it lol 🤣

You probably do, you just don't remember... in the same way I don't remember 99.9% of my dreams.

Mindymomo · 11/02/2023 22:14

I had some really graphic dreams once I hit the menopause. Now I’m past it I have boring dreams.

RobertaFirmino · 12/02/2023 00:08

I've had tons of them over the years, Tommy Shelby, James Milner, my friend's husband, even Les Dennis 😳Means absolutely nothing so please, please don't beat yourself up about it.

QueenCamilla · 12/02/2023 00:16

Half-man, half-dog...that one was unsettling. Someone like me dreamt up the Greek and Roman legends 😁

Kevinbaconsrealwife · 12/02/2023 00:26

I had a dream last night that I had sex with Sid James !!!!

maras3 · 12/02/2023 02:43

I dreamt I was shagging Worzel Gummidge. Blush
The one from the original series, not the one with Mackenzie Crook though that would probably have been just as disturbing. 😱

SecretPeston · 12/02/2023 21:03

I had a very erotic dream about someone I know in a professional role (I am his client) and when I saw him the next day he was quite flustered, was blushing and was even more flirtatious than usual....

ReneBumsWombats · 12/02/2023 21:09

I once read a book with a very funny scene where a man and his wife had an argument because she dreamed he kissed someone else and when she woke up and told him, he refused to apologise.

Zanatdy · 12/02/2023 21:12

We can’t control what we dream about. Sometimes it freaks me out what I’ve dreamt about and has zero baring on what I want

eatdrinkandbemerry · 12/02/2023 21:17

I once dreamt about a lady I was having a meeting with the following day 🤣 it was a very sexual dream.
In the meeting I thought to myself "your fit but I wouldn't want to sleep with you " 🤣.
Obviously I can't control my dreams 🤷‍♀️🤣

OnTheRunWithMannyMontana · 12/02/2023 23:42

ReneBumsWombats · 12/02/2023 21:09

I once read a book with a very funny scene where a man and his wife had an argument because she dreamed he kissed someone else and when she woke up and told him, he refused to apologise.

I do this to DH regularly. Poor chap never knows what he has done wrong 😂

user12345678912334 · 13/02/2023 00:00

I frequently dream of my first love. He's still young and fit in my dream, totally not how he is now.
But secretly, I still do love him.
I've been married to someone else for 25 years.
They are lovely dreams.

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