I met a man in June... nice slow start. But it's stalled. He never calls...only texts to update me about his latest ailments/bowel movements. He simply can't be arsed. And I don't know why I'm so annoyed. He's rubbish in bed (we have TRIED to sleep together but he gets too hot/tired/it hurts his back etc). His house is filthy. His personal hygiene is bad. I could go on but I'm making myself laugh at how absurd this is. Anyway...I have said to him that this isn't a relationship. There's nothing going on. But he still sends one or two inane texts a day... asking how I am. Should I just ignore or call him and tell him to leave me alone? I feel nothing but a profound sense of disappointment (it's been 20 years since I dated anyone) and irritation. Life's too short! 😂😳