I met a guy through work earlier this year, he's cute, funny, has a a daughter a little older than mine, late teen. We started a fwb type relationship without the teens knowing. Recently we all met and had a great night together until his older teen was obviously taking the dog for a walk to get drugs, I laid the law down that my daughter wasn't going to leave the house for this reason, but then allowed my teen out until 3am with a guy in his car driving around. I feel now he's been cold with me, blown me out or not bothered messaging the last two weekends..am I being petty not messaging him first tonight to see if he wanted to meet up, he said at work we were ok and nothing had changed but I feel he's not as in to me now.. we're both early fifties and should be past game playing, face to face he's fine at work, but no effort this weekend to meet leaves me doubting...