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Loose vagina please help

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Missy1457 · 25/09/2022 19:39

Hi, I can’t believe I’m writing on here I feel so embarassed☹️Anyway, I had DS 18 months ago and I’m currently pregnant again (20 weeks). Recently I’ve noticed my vagina to be quite loose, I’m not enjoying sex and either is my DH. Is there anything I can do to help this? Before my first child I used to have a great vagina, I can’t help to feel upset about this and obviously don’t want us to have no sex life… is there anything I can do to help to tighten down there? Many thanks xxx

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Thurst · 06/10/2022 18:11

loislovesstewie · 25/09/2022 21:45

You need to do pelvic floor exercises for the rest of your life basically. It's no good doing them for a while then stopping, after childbirth it really is a forever routine. Do a few when you are weeing, to see if you can stop the flow, if you can you are doing well. Then at regular intervals throughout the day.

Don’t do this it can cause infections.
Also this thread is a bit 🤔

WhatTimeDoYouCallThis · 06/10/2022 18:13

Hello, I remember this and it does get better with exercises after, some good advice here. Do try different positions where your thighs can do some of the work and keep positive.

Samedaysameshit · 06/10/2022 22:43

Hoppinggreen · 06/10/2022 18:09

Well didn’t we all.
Have you considered that your DHs penis is just too small instead?

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This

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Missy1457 · 06/10/2022 23:01

Sorry, what exactly are your implying? Unfortunately for me, this is a REAL problem for a REAL woman and i thought I would come on here looking some advice!!

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Missy1457 · 06/10/2022 23:05

Hoppinggreen · 06/10/2022 18:09

Well didn’t we all.
Have you considered that your DHs penis is just too small instead?

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Yeah I’m aware that things change. I’m just looking advice, if you don’t have any please don’t comment. Also no, my partner isn’t the problem or I would have realised a long time before now.

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Missy1457 · 06/10/2022 23:08

toastedcat · 06/10/2022 18:07

I too am suspicious of the OP's post... something tells me this isn't actually a real problem from a real woman. 🙄

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Sorry, what exactly are your implying? suspicious of what? Unfortunately for me, this is a REAL problem for a REAL woman and i thought I would come on here looking some advice!!

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Missy1457 · 06/10/2022 23:13

WhatTimeDoYouCallThis · 06/10/2022 18:13

Hello, I remember this and it does get better with exercises after, some good advice here. Do try different positions where your thighs can do some of the work and keep positive.

Thank you for your response! I’ve downloaded the nhs Squeezy app and will continue doing the exercises, hoping to see a difference over time!

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Missy1457 · 06/10/2022 23:14

@WhatTimeDoYouCallThis also, it’s nice to see I’m not the only one who’s been in the position and there’s something that can be done

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RaRaRaspoutine · 06/10/2022 23:17

This screams reverse. “Great vagina” boak no woman speaks like that

PayPennies · 06/10/2022 23:25

Nope. Not real.

Arsepants · 07/10/2022 05:49

Get your rocks off somewhere else op

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Missy1457 · 07/10/2022 08:48

PayPennies · 06/10/2022 23:25

Nope. Not real.

Wrong. Very much so real. Why would anyone joke about this????

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Missy1457 · 07/10/2022 08:49

Arsepants · 07/10/2022 05:49

Get your rocks off somewhere else op

Sorry, I’m unsure what this means?

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Missy1457 · 07/10/2022 08:51

RaRaRaspoutine · 06/10/2022 23:17

This screams reverse. “Great vagina” boak no woman speaks like that

i do speak like that lol. And it’s true. Sorry I maybe could have put it in a less crude way but I thought was best just to get to the point… anyway I was just looking for some support. I guess I was wrong to post on here. Sorry guys.

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LoekMa · 08/10/2022 02:09

Missy1457 · 06/10/2022 23:08

Sorry, what exactly are your implying? suspicious of what? Unfortunately for me, this is a REAL problem for a REAL woman and i thought I would come on here looking some advice!!

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Youre not supposed to ever mention that OP. You're on MN here, womens' vaginas never ever change after birth. Any man who says so is a narcissist chauvinistic coercive controller. LtB

Haffiana · 08/10/2022 09:31

Youre not supposed to ever mention that OP. You're on MN here, womens' vaginas never ever change after birth. Any man who says so is a narcissist chauvinistic coercive controller. LtB

Any man on this thread is either having a wank or a joke with his saddo friends on his Incel forum about how he has posted on MN and people are replying to him.

Which is it, I wonder?

UWhatNow · 08/10/2022 09:38

toastedcat · 06/10/2022 18:07

I too am suspicious of the OP's post... something tells me this isn't actually a real problem from a real woman. 🙄

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Yes agreed. But it has produced some helpful responses I guess… 🤷🏼‍♀️

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