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DH's phone goes off at 3am?

28 replies

OrangesandApplesplease · 05/09/2022 21:53

Anyone have any clue what this means?

I am currently on holiday with my husband.

Husband’s phone goes off at 3am this morning by an unsaved number (they called 3 times). Obviously didn’t answer.

Woke us both up. It was a WhatsApp video call from China…. So obviously someone who has his number trying to ‘video call’ ?

What the hell is this? Asked husband and he was very shifty/ said he didn’t know and went back to sleep?

Is this something like a sex line or something innocent like someone accidentally getting his number?

Any views welcome please! I've been going around in circles.

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byzeus · 05/09/2022 21:56

on the face of it this sounds like scam/spam and nothing to worry about, apart from it disturbing your sleep! was DH being “shifty” or was it 3am and he was just as confused as you?

JubileeTissues · 05/09/2022 21:56

I'd say scammers

Schmordle · 05/09/2022 21:58

I’d say scammers too, I got a WhatsApp call last night from Sri Lanka! Don’t think it made my husband suspicious!

Lotusflower16 · 05/09/2022 21:58

Scam!

SteveHarringtonsChestHair · 05/09/2022 22:00

A lot would depend on context for me. Eg if his company does business in China then it would be more suspect than if he has no likely links there. I presume the location is where the number is registered not just someone visiting, so only really relevant if he has contacts out there.

Otherwise 98% sure it’s a scam.

PinkButtercups · 05/09/2022 22:02

Probably just a scam.

OrangesandApplesplease · 05/09/2022 22:07

Thanks all!

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IceStationZebra · 05/09/2022 22:07

Scam. And phones should be on Do Not Disturb mode at night…

OrangesandApplesplease · 05/09/2022 22:16

@IceStationZebra I don't think we know how to put it on that but we will do!

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OrangesandApplesplease · 05/09/2022 22:17

@byzeus just as confused as me although a bit shifty as well. I do think it's a scam/ spam.

When we are at home he's up a lot during night but he claims it's a bad back or can't sleep

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Augend23 · 05/09/2022 22:18

You don't have to have someone's contact name to add them on WhatsApp. A scammer might have got the number from a data leak or indeed anywhere else scammers get numbers from.

DragonflyNights · 05/09/2022 22:24

I’ve had random numbers from overseas text or call me in Whatsapp before. He was probably just sleepy rather than shifty!

HowlongWillThisTakeNow · 05/09/2022 22:26

Scammers, I get tons , I have silence unknown callers set to avoid the phone ringing

OrangesandApplesplease · 05/09/2022 22:40

Thanks all made me feel better don't know why I thought the worse

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TheEggChair · 05/09/2022 22:42

Just block the number so that they don't call again.

EllaPaella · 05/09/2022 22:48

I've had loads of these to my phone recently. Attempted video calls and phone calls. Every time I block the number another one calls. I must be getting about 3 or 4 a day.

Divebar2021 · 05/09/2022 22:50

Surely sex lines don’t call people?

Wombat100 · 05/09/2022 22:58

I would immediately think this is a scam and wouldn’t think twice about it so i’m just wondering why your first thought is that it might be suspicious?

figmaofmyimagination · 05/09/2022 23:00

It’s quite a long commute for an affair… 😁

Nah I get calls from different countries once or twice a week, I never answer, just assume they’re scammers.

Lozzerbmc · 05/09/2022 23:34

I’ve had a couple of late night scam calls from overseas numbers.

allboysherebutme · 05/09/2022 23:38

Scammers x

Herejustforthisone · 06/09/2022 09:18

OrangesandApplesplease · 05/09/2022 22:40

Thanks all made me feel better don't know why I thought the worse

Probably because he’s shifty and often up
all night.

TheOriginalClownfish · 06/09/2022 14:45

I got a whatsapp call from China about 2 weeks ago at 9am. Which I promptly ignored, because of all the scams. So he messaged me.

Turns out the seller of craft supplies I'd ordered on Ali Express wanted to clarify what colours I needed before shipping them to me.

So it might be totally innocent.

QuebecBagnet · 06/09/2022 14:49

I’d say scammers. Someone from Sierra Leone often rings me in the small hours. My phone is downstairs so I don’t answer and they don’t leave a message

Clevs · 06/09/2022 14:58

Google the number and see what comes up.