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Jerkmate

58 replies

Tyronegirl · 18/06/2022 17:38

Just discovered my DP has been on a site called Jerkmate. Does anyone know anything about it? I did a quick search and it seems you can masturbate on line with strangers but is there any chance it is innocent? Can you just watch or do you have to interact?

OP posts:
Caminante · 20/06/2022 23:29

Well this has brought back some bad memories. My ExH was a user of this site and I did literally catch him with his pants down, ready to erm, "roll".

Caminante · 20/06/2022 23:30

Oh but it was ok apparently because he never engaged with men, only women. Oh that's ok then!!

HollowTalk · 20/06/2022 23:34

Is this just a group of men, then?

redbigbananafeet · 20/06/2022 23:45

HollowTalk · 20/06/2022 23:34

Is this just a group of men, then?

No women are allowed to masturbate too now.

AnyFucker · 20/06/2022 23:49

Get rid of the jerk. Or you are the jerk.

BedsideTaylor · 21/06/2022 01:14

It’s a mutual masturbation site which in my book, is cheating.

totallyoutnumbered · 21/06/2022 10:29

I caught an ex on this once. Absolutely grim and most definitely cheating in my book

PoseyFlump · 21/06/2022 12:25

@redbigbananafeet 😂😂

SaintVal · 21/06/2022 12:28

Makes you wonder what everyone did before the internet 😳

JangolinaPitt · 21/06/2022 12:31

Remainiac · 18/06/2022 21:55

So unlike the home life of our dear queen 🙄😏

😀

Shitscared123 · 21/06/2022 13:38

@AnyFucker Grin

This is a serious thread, but the comments have made me PMSL. Insensitive fuckers…

bare · 21/06/2022 13:42

Do you all start at the same time? Smile

weathervane1 · 21/06/2022 17:50

No, you toss to see who starts...

PoseyFlump · 21/06/2022 18:16

weathervane1 · 21/06/2022 17:50

No, you toss to see who starts...

Apologies OP but I just can't help it 😂😭

Caminante · 21/06/2022 18:46

weathervane1 · 21/06/2022 17:50

No, you toss to see who starts...

😂

Unanananana · 21/06/2022 19:01

Do you race to see who finishes first? Or last?

Melsuleenia · 21/06/2022 19:10

Fab Swingers is Satan's Arsehole.

Bin. Immediately.

He's not that great in bed, is he? Does he cry when he comes?

I'm sorry. This isn't great. I've never done this but I know a female who has. It never ends well.

Avoid. Swingers

Melsuleenia · 21/06/2022 19:17

Actually these comments are making me PMSL.

You are all Trojans! And I'm not talking about a 9" black mamba.

Alas. [Sadface]

Melsuleenia · 21/06/2022 19:17

I'm totally putting the VPN on and gogglig it.

Kerrrmieee · 21/06/2022 19:22

Sites like that almost inevitably have someone filming you so they can get paid for uploading it on porn sites.

Many of the women - and men, are catfishers. Look at Joel Dommet - his wank video was uploaded.

I can't imagine how many women have been sold online this way thinking it was mutual masturbation.

Cameras lie, so do people - there's the money angle.

MyOtherNameIsMyName · 21/06/2022 19:43

And there I was expecting this to be about chicken 🐓🍗

PoseyFlump · 21/06/2022 20:03

I tried to explain this website to my DP. The more I tried, the more confused he became. He said 'I just don't get this WankBuddies thing' 😂

ComfyChairPose · 22/06/2022 07:54

Well nobody is so naive that they can't understand the concept poseyflump.

PoseyFlump · 22/06/2022 08:14

It was a joke @ComfyChairPose 🙄

ComfyChairPose · 22/06/2022 20:16

Right. I had no way of knowing that @PoseyFlump

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