Dp argument.... what is this behaviour?!

[sofedupp]

I am sooo annoyed!!!!!

Dp & I rarely fall out, but if we have the smallest of arguments he will vanish, literally leave the room as fast as he can and sleep on the sofa!

Tonight this happened, meanwhile i am left up in our room raging at this behaviour for various reasons.

1. He caused this argument
2. His teen son is over & will now know we're fighting which will get back to his mum & i hate that
3. Its as if he needs to get away from the conflict & he will be ok tomorrow but I've been left feeling shit all night
4. The running away! What is that about??
5. Ruins the day tomorrow as i will certainly not be acting like everything is fine!

The argument reason isn't even what matters (incase people are curious) its just the running away whenever it happens

We've agreed not to argue, or reflect if things niggle, for 3 months it's been bliss.

Previously we'd be on each other's case, very passionate, an argument every 2-3 months.

As the song goes, let it go.🤗