Think I've been ghosted?

[Rainagainandagain]

I've known a guy for quite a few years, we've been facebook friends for at least 4 years.. the last 2 years he's been single.
This weekend he suggested we meet for a talk and food. So he took me out on Thursday for a walk and lunch at a cafe. We seemed to get in okay.. there were a few awkward silences, so I made conversation.

When he dropped me off home he gave me a hug and kiss on cheek.. I sent him a text to say thanks for a really nice lunch and that I enjoyed the time. He said you're welcome in his text.. since then nothing.
Have I been ghosted?

If that happened to me I'd think that he had suggested lunch to work out if there was anything more than friendship there, and discovered there wasn't so is leaving it a while until you can both naturally resume the friendship as it used to be.

Ghosted because you haven’t been contacted for 24 hours? 🤦🏻

Sounds like neither of you are that keen. But I wouldn’t call this ghosting. Don’t waste any more time on someone who you don’t feel a spark with.

@Rainagainandagain

Good thinking! I haven't texted him at all, usually he texts me as a friend once or twice a day but after the lunch.. nothing!

Maybe he's posting the same thing on another forum thinking you've ghosted him!

Why haven't you messaged him?

@Wiredforsound

I think you had lunch with a friend.

^^ This, sounds like he wasn’t very struck by the date either