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What do you do when you feel attracted to someone who is attached?

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Valma · 30/12/2007 18:44

Can you stay friends?
Is it possible to 'sit on' your burgeoning feelings, so that they don't even get a chance to develop into something you know would be difficult to handle?

I am only asking as I desperately want to do the right thing - and if possible, stay friends with the person as well as their partner. I am hoping the feelings that are starting will just fade out if I ignore them.

Has anyone done this? Did it work? It would be really awful if it got any worse.

Thanks x

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PeterDuck · 30/12/2007 19:10

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Monkeytrousers · 30/12/2007 19:10

once I am independent, I mean. Not before.

Valma · 30/12/2007 19:11

God but Peter, he is such an attractive potato...

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scorpio1 · 30/12/2007 19:12

lol @ attractive potato

andfranksentthis · 30/12/2007 19:12

Pack your bags and run!!!

PeterDuck · 30/12/2007 19:15

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scorpio1 · 30/12/2007 19:16

still adore mine ! Towels on the bed though.....

PeterDuck · 30/12/2007 19:19

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Valma · 30/12/2007 19:22

Hmm. Nothing you are saying is really putting me off which I can see indicates there is already a problem.

I definitely need to stop it immediately. I can't afford to joke about it really!

Thanks for all your advice and help. I will just stop thinking about him now

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time4me · 30/12/2007 23:04

Peter duck,brilliant advice,and wise

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