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Partner moving away for work

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Jodie1982 · 29/01/2022 23:47

In a relationship. ( Live in UK) Have been for 9yrs. We have 3 children, 9. 7 and 5 years. My partner is an assistant manager in a bar, makes £9 an hour. He has been offered to manage a pub elsewhere but because it's so far away he would have to move into the apartment above the pub. It is good money, but I don't know how our relationship would survive as I would only see him X2 a week, also worrying about how my children would manage barely seeing Daddy. He doesn't seem to understand my worries. We have had relationship issues in the past because he has left me for another woman etc...is this why I'm worrying so much? I know he'd love to run a bar/pub by himself, but I don't know how a relationship would work seeing eachother X2 a week. Any advice?

OP posts:
Jodie1982 · 07/02/2022 20:53

Thank you. He knows I wouldn't take any crap.

OP posts:
Jodie1982 · 07/02/2022 20:54

No rent. Just council tax

OP posts:
Jodie1982 · 07/02/2022 20:57

He's gone to visit the pub tonight. It's most definitely happening. He doesn't care if I like it or not. I'll wait till hrs moved in n then end it. It's not gonna work.

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RoyKentsChestHair · 07/02/2022 22:48

Sounds like his mind is made up. You’re doing the right thing. Flowers

ANameChangeAgain · 07/02/2022 22:54

You've made the right decision. He doesn't sound like a family man to me.

caringdenise009 · 08/02/2022 00:01

What's the name of the pub? I am close enough to take a trip to Barnet and have more than a few drinks before I bore the landlord with my opinion of men who are shit father's. Half joking.

Wednesdayafternoon · 10/02/2022 21:43

Hope you're ok OP ♥️
This must be so hard for you, sending lots of love xx

lifeissweet · 10/02/2022 21:45

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