Do you feel your partner does his share around the house and with the kids?
Mine does stuff i almost never do like take the rubbish out and cook, but is crap at other stuff like tidying up. He changed half of DD1s nappies and took it upon himself to wash them too. He's changed DD2 about 30 times in 15 months and I put the nappies in the wash at least half the time if not more..anyway...I feel he could be doing more.