Should we split before Christmas?

[johnnydeppsmistress]

Sorry to keep ranting about me & dh splitting up but I have not yet had the courage to tell him that we are splitting up! With Xmas round the corner and work pressures on dh, I have not had the heart to tell him. Of course, there's never a good time... but I wanted someone else's opinion, am I doing the right thing by waiting 'til after Xmas. Also, how should I behave - as if all is well or the opposite? I am so confused. I don't want to hurt him and especially not the kids at this time of the year.

Thanks for the info. - I shall refer to this again when the time comes, as at the mo it is all very confusing! In an ideal world, I hope that we can settle it privately but.... in view of the fact that I am ending the marriage I think it could get quite messy. I don't know what I'll do if he refuses to move out (which I think he might).

I shall of course keep you posted! Thanks so much for all your support.

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