Hi everyone am going to try cut it as short as i can but give as much as detail as i can please feel free to be honest with the advice as i really need it.
Me and my husband have been married 2years we have a little boy who is 1
I work 30 hours and he works about 35hours.
My mum helps with childcare while i work.
But i also cook and clean the normal women house chores on my days of and when i finish work at 7pm every night.
He does nothing he finishes at 3pm everyday.
He's constantly saying i nag at him. And he dont feel comfortable around the house. Because i ask him to help with some chores. In every argument he starts saying i nag at him. He dont like being told what to do.
But am just so overtired he dont help looking after my liittle one. He sleeps in till 11am/12pm on his days of and dont help in the mornings with my son once again.
I asked him once to spend time with our son and wake up a little bit earlier so they can bond together. But he complains about that to saying am bossing him around telling him when he can sleep till. Which that wasnt my attention.
I dont ask for help anymore because am tired of him bringing it all up in a argument
But a few days ago he said to me he dont care about letting the house get repossessed he dont care about paying bills.
I dont know what to do anymore i feel like a single parent i always have
Its always about him and his feeling never about mjine. He raises his voice at me infront of my son. And if i leave to go into the kitchen my son will run after me and not stay with my husband. He dont like staying with him at all
Am I overthinking everything, i just feel like am loosing my mind. I was diagnosed with ptsd after my son. I dont know if am slipping back in to it or even if thats possible but i feel like going in to a empty room and crying my eyes out