I have been on 3 dates with the most lovely girl, we met on Bumble. I am 39 and she is 37. We have so much in common and get on really well, I honestly feel a real connection with her, not like any other dates or previous relationships.
The thing is she has 4 kids (same dad) already and has said she does not want any more. I have always thought I would have kids and I have been getting broody recently. I want to go through that little baby phase with kids.
While I am fine dating someone with kids, I am not sure I could date someone who does not want more kids, but I am torn as there is a real connection and I have been single for so long with the previous couple of years being a write off.
Her kids are 7 year old boys (twins) and 11 and 14 year old girls.
She has put herself through uni, has an amazing job etc been single for 4 years.
So advice needed, I really really like the lady in question, never felt such a strong connection, but there is the kids angle, I want kids. I've been single myself for a while. any advice gratefully received