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How long before you met the family?

14 replies

Calibrate · 02/10/2021 16:01

As per the title, how long before you met your partners parents/siblings etc?

OP posts:
Timeforwinterclothes · 02/10/2021 16:06

First date. He took me to a family party!

SalsaLove · 02/10/2021 16:08

3 months, for my FIL birthday weekend

SunshineCake1 · 02/10/2021 16:11

With DH it was six months but that was because we lived quite a way from them. I met everyone in one go. Grandparent, parents, brother, aunties, uncles, thousands of cousins at an anniversary dinner.

Bananalanacake · 02/10/2021 16:39

With ex dp never in 4 years which is why he's an ex. With dh he took me to meet them the first time I visited him, he lived in another country to me.

Simonjt · 02/10/2021 16:41

9 months, they live abroad, so it was a case of the first time they visited the UK or the first time we travelled there. I met his little brother after four months as he comes to the UK in the summer to stay with my husband for a few weeks.

Aquamarine1029 · 02/10/2021 16:43

I think where everyone lives in terms of proximity plays a huge factor in this.

AlexaShutUp · 02/10/2021 16:45

Four and a half years, but in fairness, they lived in a different country from where we were living and in a very traditional society where we couldn't really travel together until we were married!Grin

GruntBaby · 02/10/2021 16:48

2 years. They were in a different country but only 1 hr flight away. Culturally they tend not to make family intros until it's quite serious. I got fed up after a while. We split. We got back together and he introduced me.

Sideorderofchips · 02/10/2021 16:49

2 months

galacticpixels · 02/10/2021 17:18

I met his parents 4.5 months in as they live in the same city as us. My family live further away and he met them at 7 months.

Bbq1 · 02/10/2021 17:30

First date!

mydogisthebest · 02/10/2021 17:49

First date.

Sakurami · 02/10/2021 17:57

His kids 3 months (they are older teens), his family 10 months (covid)

SheABitSpicyToday · 02/10/2021 17:59

2 months. We met in October and we spent Christmas with both of our families.

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