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Russian girls emails

56 replies

Ishecheating1 · 28/08/2021 15:08

Hello everyone
We went on a trip last week and DH asked me to check in the hotel whilst he is unloading the suitcases. The booking confirmation was on his email. Did the booking and when looking for it, I pressed on junk mail. I saw many emails like 'you have a new message from..' many of those says Russian beauties. Most of the email were still bold (i am assuming unread) in the junk box.
I cannot make much sense from it. Is he talking to online girls? Is it porn? Is it a dating site?
Backstory: sex hasn't been great lately. He's been struggling to get an erection but no other issues in our marriage.
Thanks

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PalmsandCharms · 28/08/2021 15:33

I get these emails.

I've never visited the site.

Echobelly · 28/08/2021 15:34

I'm a woman and I get those emails all the time - he's just being spammed.

LoislovesStewie · 28/08/2021 15:36

I get Russian girls asking me if I want sex, do I want a bigger penis (not really, as I don't have one attached to me) and others asking me if I want to see nude women(!) or hook up with someone in Montreal. All in my junk file. I don't have a clue why, so assume it's just sent out to anybody.

Guiltypleasures001 · 28/08/2021 15:36

I get them not in spam but in main Gmail acc, always after pressing yes too cookies it's a pain in the arse

Ishecheating1 · 28/08/2021 15:37

Thanks everyone...just told DH about it! He laughed and said to let him watch football in peace!
He gave me his phone and said to look..there will be plenty more.
He joked about not being able to keep up with his wife, let alone russian beauties

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ItsDinah · 28/08/2021 15:47

I've been using the internet for over twenty years and have never received any of the dodgy emails the posters on this thread describe. So, I can understand why the OP would be taken aback.

Neilsfavouritechilli · 28/08/2021 15:55

I get these from 'local babes' who have advised me they want to "slob on my nob" amongst other things. I do not have a pension.

CoasterCoaster · 28/08/2021 15:55

Aah, that sounds like a pretty ideal response OP, glad it was nothing to worry about.

vodkaredbullgirl · 28/08/2021 15:57

It is all spam, i get them now and then in my junk box.

JovialNickname · 28/08/2021 16:03

I get these exact ones OP... "Russian beauty Elena wants to meet you for sex" etc. I have never ever been on one of these sites! It really is just spam, don't worry about it.

NiceGerbil · 28/08/2021 16:06

I have zero interest in Russian beautiful girls who want to meet me but they keep emailing.

PhilCornwall1 · 28/08/2021 16:11

Why would you say am naive? I qas thinking he must have been on this site at least once even by mistake for them to have his email address right?

You're naive to think a website even exists.

If you looked at my spam folder and at times my inbox, I must be shagging half of Russia!!

Having seen what has been in Mrs PCs mailbox on rare occasions, she's shagging there other half.

SylvanianFrenemies · 28/08/2021 16:19

I get these. I am not doing anything to invite them.

Bluntness100 · 28/08/2021 16:21

@Journeyofthedragons

Backstory: sex hasn't been great lately. He's been struggling to get an erection

Have you tried dressing up as Joseph Stalin in the bedroom?

Comment of the day 😂😂😂😂😂
Nosferatussidebit · 28/08/2021 16:29

I qas thinking he must have been on this site at least once even by mistake for them to have his email address right?

I've never been on a dating site or porn site and I get them all the time. "Anita has messaged you, she wants sex tonight" etc. Russian girls, pe Ile growth pills etc. They're spam. I don't know anyone who doesn't get them.

PhilCornwall1 · 28/08/2021 16:30

I've just had an update on Mrs PCs mailbox. Looks like she's up to no good with a Ukrainian!!! 😮😮😮

RevolvingPivot · 28/08/2021 16:36

Why did you tell him op if you know it was spam. If I told my DH he would say so??? Not laugh because they are extremely annoying!!

vodkaredbullgirl · 28/08/2021 16:36

I want millions that i'm owed by Nigeria.

RainingYetAgain · 28/08/2021 16:39

I've got 4 email addresses- for different uses. One of them, set up when I was a locum, has loads and loads of spam, including the Russian babes, and penis extension promotors. I also had lots of spam from Biden /Harris fund raisers during the US elections.
I've used a checker and I can't see that the address has ever been in a leak but it keeps coming.
I have never signed up to any newsletter or anything using that address- but it keep coming......

Muchasgracias · 28/08/2021 16:41

OP, if you had stumbled across an email from a Nigerian Prince, would you have assumed he was hiding the fact that he was indeed royalty of African descent about to benefit from a huge inheritance?

Nope, thought not.

titchy · 28/08/2021 16:42

You need to check your spam folde OP!

Theimpossiblegirl · 28/08/2021 16:45

I've had loads of porny titled spam but never use porn sites, dating sites or anything remotely interesting or controversial. If you looked in my junk box you'd think I was sex mad and also banked with banks all over the world. Oh, and that I win large cash prizes and American supermarket gift cards.

PhilCornwall1 · 28/08/2021 16:46

OP, if you had stumbled across an email from a Nigerian Prince, would you have assumed he was hiding the fact that he was indeed royalty of African descent about to benefit from a huge inheritance?

No, she'd be posting, telling us she thinks he's a related to Eddie Murphy.

Ishecheating1 · 28/08/2021 17:33

@RevolvingPivot

Why did you tell him op if you know it was spam. If I told my DH he would say so??? Not laugh because they are extremely annoying!!
I would have told him anyway..just needed outside perspective. We always saybif something bothering us.
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Ishecheating1 · 28/08/2021 17:34

@PhilCornwall1

OP, if you had stumbled across an email from a Nigerian Prince, would you have assumed he was hiding the fact that he was indeed royalty of African descent about to benefit from a huge inheritance?

No, she'd be posting, telling us she thinks he's a related to Eddie Murphy.

Some of your responses are ridiculous...there's a difference between hunour and nastiness
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