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I have a date

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gingerface40 · 17/07/2021 19:36

..... and that is it, I have a date! We are going out for Sunday lunch.

Will u wear a dress or jeans and a top?

What do I do? I haven't done this for so long, my ex never took me out, so I am nervous as hell!

Any advice please xx

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ohfuckitall · 18/07/2021 17:54

@Blossomandbee

Are you sure he's not just gone to the place you said without replying to confirm?
Yes, this is entirely possible!
ohfuckitall · 18/07/2021 17:55

Cos if he asked where and when he clearly was planning to go.

seriouslystressedoutmama · 18/07/2021 18:15

Aw sugar I'm really sorry he did that. I came off all dating sites and am a lot happier for it but that's because I've totally given up on men. If you haven't, which I hope you haven't, try joining a group activity where you might meet new people such as a running group etc

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gingerface40 · 18/07/2021 18:53

Yeah he asked what beach, and that was it! Hahaha!

I don't mind I am passed all that!

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PinotPony · 19/07/2021 15:58

So he asked you what beach you wanted to meet at and what time. You confirmed.

Then you assumed that you'd been ghosted because he didn't reply..?

I bet there's a good chance he went to the beach as arranged. He probably thinks you stood him up!

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gingerface40 · 20/07/2021 07:13

Well there was no time or nothing, or beach, so he could of been anywhere! And I did ring but no answer.

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gingerface40 · 22/07/2021 21:01

So listen to this!

The lad that pied me, has text me today to say sorry, and that he thought I was letting him down lightly, and mugging him off.

He wants to see me tomorrow and keeps apologising. I was being nice changing it to the beach I thought.

Bloody men! What shall I do???

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JSL52 · 22/07/2021 21:05

@gingerface40

So listen to this!

The lad that pied me, has text me today to say sorry, and that he thought I was letting him down lightly, and mugging him off.

He wants to see me tomorrow and keeps apologising. I was being nice changing it to the beach I thought.

Bloody men! What shall I do???

Meet him - good luck. Sounds like a communication cock up.
JSL52 · 22/07/2021 21:05

Report back !

Workinghardeveryday · 22/07/2021 21:07

Go with your gut feeling he could be telling the truth. Or he could be full of shit! You could arrange to meet him and not show like he did 😁

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gingerface40 · 22/07/2021 21:13

I think he lacks in confidence from
What I have picked up on!

I will see what happens and let u all know

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