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Match.com blocked by someone I have never looked at?

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Tallguy1 · 19/05/2021 12:59

Hi, I have been using Match on and off for a year or so and have been blocked several times by users who I have never had any interaction with or even viewed their profile? My profile is in no way offensive and I get a fair bit of traffic and always reply politely if I receive a message.
I know that it means nothing (as I have no idea who these users are) but it irks me. Is it a glitch or do you think that some people get a kick out of randomly blocking. BTW they are not anyone I would be interested in. Thanks

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JustMarriedAndLovingIt · 19/05/2021 13:07

Not sure really but I’m sure they’re not just doing it to you. My first thought is that they are just ‘pruning’ down the list of who is available to look at. I wouldn’t take offence, the right person will be out there.

picklemewalnuts · 19/05/2021 13:11

Maybe it's someone who recognises you and doesn't want to be seen themselves.

Umberellatheweatha · 19/05/2021 13:13

Is it not more likely that they have set settings so that anyone who smokes or who is outworh a certain age range ect... just doesn't get access to their profile because it's not what they are looking for?

Or even that they have left the site and you are just seeing a blocked message because the profile hasn't come down right yet?

I wouldn't take it personally.

Abouttoblow · 19/05/2021 13:14

It might be the husband/BF of one of your friends.

nolovelost · 19/05/2021 13:15

How do you know they've blocked you if you've never viewed their profile?

Nahhh · 19/05/2021 13:16

If you’ve been on there a while perhaps you keep popping up in their “matches”, they’re not interested in you for whatever reason so they’ve blocked you so they don’t keep seeing you over and over?

Mowzy · 19/05/2021 13:16

When I was on OLD I blocked anyone that I did not want to contact me, like pp says, pruning down who is in my availability. I blocked:

Men with kids
Men with profile photos of them with a towel round their waist looking in the mirror/leaning on a stupid car wearing sunglasses/wearing sunglasses indoors/big muscle guys/men with profiles I didn't like the sound of/men into shooting or guns/men who just seemed like wankers.

Grin
cookiecreampie · 19/05/2021 13:27

They may have messaged you and then regretted it so you would never see the message. Usually when they've said something dirty or rude.

trytoignoreit · 19/05/2021 13:31

@Mowzy

When I was on OLD I blocked anyone that I did not want to contact me, like pp says, pruning down who is in my availability. I blocked:

Men with kids
Men with profile photos of them with a towel round their waist looking in the mirror/leaning on a stupid car wearing sunglasses/wearing sunglasses indoors/big muscle guys/men with profiles I didn't like the sound of/men into shooting or guns/men who just seemed like wankers.

Grin

Was there anyone left after block all these? Grin
Mowzy · 19/05/2021 13:32

Yeah quite a few! Grin including my now DP of 11 years. Smile

Tallguy1 · 19/05/2021 13:39

@Nahhh

If you’ve been on there a while perhaps you keep popping up in their “matches”, they’re not interested in you for whatever reason so they’ve blocked you so they don’t keep seeing you over and over?
I think that this might be the case as I have people who “appear” to visit my profile on a daily basis and I know from reading about match that this is a glitch. Maybe it appears that I am visiting their profile regularly?
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OwlTwitterings · 19/05/2021 13:44

I’d assume that either they don’t want you coming up in their search/suggestions or else they don’t want to see and recognise them for whatever reason.

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