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I cant initiate sex

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Lockeddownagain · 10/04/2021 18:54

I've been with my husbands 13years married 9year sex life fell apart after son was born weve been having sex a few times a month as wanting to conceive but I'm ovualting at the mo or about to and every month if he doesnt initiate nothing happens anyone else like this

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Aimzxo · 10/04/2021 19:32

Yep I'm the exact same, if he doesn't initiate it doesn't happen, I think it boils down to confidence, I have no advice but didn't want to read and run, your not alone on this one!

MeadowHay · 10/04/2021 22:46

Have you spoken to him about this and how it's bothering you? Maybe you could come up with some ideas to help change this or at least help a plan to make you have sex more while you're TTC so you don't miss your windows, like he could chart with you or something?

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