a little kinky question? Not a troll. Just a name change to cover embarrassment.

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at an Ann Summers last night, someone said she let her husband spank her before sex. Sometimes using his belt. Is this quite common-other girls didn't seem that surprised!?

I know Kittylette,it's not the spanking,it's the fishslice.PMSL.

When she was feeling particularly naughty did she ask for the spatula ??

God yes we always do it before sex, usually with an organic loaf from the farmer's market, just before making my own stock

Golly it's EXHAUSTING being a modern woman

I can go one further...I've always thought that I might quite like to be slapped across the face whilst having sex (is wierd I know and never mentioned it to hubby as I thought maybe it's better in fantasy than reality) but then the other week I mentioned it to him. Next time we had sex he slapped me across the face (not really hard but hard enough to sting and shock) and I LOVED it!!! Hubby wasn't too keen on doing it, said it felt all wrong but quite enjoyed the fact that it got me into a total sexual frenzy - I had a right headache later mind (but a big smile!)

I love being spanked, held down, bit of rough stuff!

"i like to think of sex a bit like housework with men.if you don't tell them how, it's never quite right"

PMSL

Doesn't seem that kinky to me - not something I am into mainly because of past the whole dominant thingy, but it's probably the most common fetish. You must be fibbing if you say your DH has never given you a cheeky spank.

I like it, my DP doesn't mind it either but wouldn't bother us if we never did it

My DP ends up hurting his hand on my not inconsiderable arse when we've tried. Might buy a paddle. I want one with a fluffy side and a mean side.