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How can I stop myself from having these feelings for him!

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GlamOfRags · 03/02/2021 00:18

Hi all!I'm in a relationship and I've realised I have feelings for my partner's brother.I would never think of doing anything because I respect my partner and myself,but what do I do about my feelings?!
I get on really well with my partner's brother and I have no idea when I started liking him but I do, and I feel so bad.
I need to put a stop on these feelings but how?

Thankyou for reading.

OP posts:
Tavannach · 03/02/2021 00:50

Spend less time in his company. And find something else to distract you - embroidery, mountain biking, yoga, cooking vegan, whatever. Develop another interest.

Maze76 · 03/02/2021 01:01

Oh no, this is not a good situation. Spend less time with him.

MaLarkinn · 03/02/2021 01:25

Tell your boyfriend and it'll stop them dead.

GlamOfRags · 03/02/2021 08:26

@ No I could never tell my partner, I don't want it to cause any problems between them which is why I might have to distance myself from his brother.

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Cpl654321 · 03/02/2021 08:54

Yeah spend less time with him. Like just avoid any opportunity to see him. Don't kid yourself about 'family events', try and skirt these for now.

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