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Ex is having a mental breakdown

28 replies

JCWildWest · 03/01/2021 23:55

Hi

I’ve posted previously when I thought he was involved in an end of the world cult. We have a daughter together who is nearly 15 and we have been separated for over 10 years. He doesn’t have a proper relationship with our daughter he has always opted out but in recent years has escalated into various things. Started easy, became vegan stopped wearing shoes. Then stopped washing stopped working aimed to not be part of society. Fast forward he thought he was going to be beamed up by Viking aliens on 21st December.

He has troubles. A lot I’m sure. Ones which I was not aware of during our relationship (we were young) with his family although I had plenty to do with his family many years ago. I don’t want to go into it but it’s bad apparently

He is threatening to sue me for emotional damage. We haven’t been together for over 10 years he’s been married and divorced in between. He wants a dna test for his daughter, who is nearly 15. I know it can’t go anywhere because it’s nonsense.

I don’t know what to do though because I’m now getting loads of messages varying from threatening to friendly. I know you will say block but, this is his only form of contact and I fear blocking because if he can take it out on messages then he might not take out by trying to meet my daughter after school.

I don’t know what to do. I haven’t replied to any messages he seems like someone who is on the edge. I know I can protect my daughter.

OP posts:
JCWildWest · 04/01/2021 21:04

How can I report him though when I don’t have an address for him not even a contact number only a connection through social media. I don’t want to waste services time if he’s not contactable

OP posts:
Theunamedcat · 04/01/2021 21:41

@JCWildWest

How can I report him though when I don’t have an address for him not even a contact number only a connection through social media. I don’t want to waste services time if he’s not contactable
Speak to the police anyway they might be able to find out where he lives
CandyLeBonBon · 04/01/2021 21:50

Op I didn't have an address for my ex. I still reported him.

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