As in: what is a good site where I might stand a chance of meeting a nice man who isn’t just after sex or praying on single mums (who are apparently desperate) who actually wants to have a proper relationship and where there isn’t some kind of complicated code for 117 different sexual preferences (ffs).
I have tried Match (where it is clear the men all want women at least 10 years their junior, apart from the 21 year olds who want to tick off an older woman) and OkCupid (which is tedious as no one pays for an account so messaging doesn’t work and half the men on it have some kind of kink thing going on -
Kept getting asked if I was a sub or a Dom and I initially had no idea what the hell they were on about).
Yes yes, obviously there wouldn’t be any actual meeting up until after lock down etc etc. But I fancied getting to know someone over email for a bit first anyway
Thank you