After thinking about forever. I have decided to be brave and move out of area. There is nothing but awful memories here. I hardly step out of the front door (before, when we were allowed). I drive out of area to do everything. My eldest dd starts college next year. I'm so glad as she doesn't have much of a friendship group and my youngest is year 9 next year. They do not see their dad. No family close by.
I have written a list of positive and negative. The only negative is I'd have to commute daily to take youngest dd (13) to school as there is no way she would change schools. The houses are cheaper but it's 30 miles away so 40 - 45 mins in the car. Then I'd go to work near by (I'm a nurse so potential jobs near new area). I work 3 days a week so on my 2 days off, I would have to do the trip twice. What are your thoughts? This is my only negative.