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Should I keep chatting with him if hes still on dating sites?

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pyramidhead · 17/12/2020 10:43

I have been talking to a man who is a Facebook friend for around two months now. We met up twice in the first month and it seemed to go well but I wouldn't exactly call them dates as we didnt go anywhere just chatted a bit. Anyway I havent seen him anymore in a while but we continue to chat via fb.
He did ask if I was free to meet a couple weeks ago. I couldn't as I was working but suggested another day but he didnt really respond to that.
So we just still chat in a friendly manner. We both initiate equally.
However my friend told me that she saw him recently active on two dating sites and often updates his bio.
I'm not on dating sites. I was in a long term very toxic relationship up until a few months ago. I'm not really sure how to proceed. I'm a bit scarred by my previous experience.
I was thinking of asking him about meeting up somehow but since finding this out its knocked my confidence. Do you think he is not interested and has "friend zoned" me? Should I just cut him off and leave it?
Thanks in advance.

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