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What would you think if your DP said this ?

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Wigisfashion83 · 10/12/2020 20:48

Say that you said something a bit out of the line- bit irrational, blaming hormones playing up.
Then, you brought it up a few days later and said you were a bit out of line and were talking rubbish.
And they said 'it's no problem, just don't mention it again.'

Why am I even overanalysing this ?

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Standrewsschool · 10/12/2020 20:50

I would think that he’s not bothered by what you said, accepted your apology and has moved on.

Wigisfashion83 · 10/12/2020 20:51

Thanks, I hope so :)

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EvenMoreFuriousVexation · 10/12/2020 20:56

I'd think he'd moved on and it wasn't a big deal.

Sometimes I can really overthink things and worry that I've massively upset someone and in reality they've forgotten I even said/did whatever it was! My counsellor reminds me to ask myself "where's the evidence that she/he/they are upset/angry?" and most of the time - there isn't any!

AnyFucker · 10/12/2020 20:56
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Wigisfashion83 · 10/12/2020 20:58

You're right, there's no evidence but sometimes we do overthink ! But I feel better now, thanks.

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BigBaublesGalore · 10/12/2020 21:00

Would depend on what I said

AccidentallyOnPurpose · 10/12/2020 21:06

It would massively depends on what I said.

If it actually was nonsense/irrational just that he moved and he has very strong feelings about the topic.

If it wasn't but he just disagreed and used the "irrational " comment to shut me up I'd be pissed off and frankly worried about the "don't mention it again" comment.

Wigisfashion83 · 10/12/2020 21:08

He didn't use the irrational comment, it was just me who thought it was.

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