A couple of years ago my husband used webcam sites to basically pay to watch women do things on cams, lovely. Having young children I tried my best to move past this and of course he said it was a mistake and would never do anything like that again.
Every now and then my paranoia gets the better of me, this happened last week. I managed to guess his username and password for the main website he was using for the webcams (livejasmin), although it didn’t show the last time he deposited money, it showed the bank card he used to use was now expired. There is also another way to pay called Skrill (I had never heard of it) and when I clicked onto that option it came up with an email address which is not the same as the 2 email addresses he currently uses. It’s a fake name I.e roger with 5 numbers after it. I know for a fact it’s not a randoms email address because these 5 numbers are the numbers he usually uses for usernames for other things. So the email address is showing as -
Roger76227 (obviously not exactly)
I’ve searched Twitter for a username using the above and it’s came up with someone who follows 80+ girls and they are all cam girls or only fan girls and the account was created in February. I’ve also searched the username on Snapchat and it says “roger fun”.
I have such a strong gut feeling that it is him, but at the same time what if it’s my paranoia. It seems too obvious to be my paranoia
I need help, I need help catching him out.
Once I have proof my marriage is done. I’ve had enough and this is the last straw, I don’t want to confront him with no evidence, I need something! I even thought about creating a fake account but it takes a lot of work making up fake email addresses etc.
Does anyone have any advice they can give me? I feel so low and looking after 2 young children I’m struggling. He is also away at work at the moment and won’t be home until near Christmas so I won’t see him.