DH been looking at local escort agency web sites - how do i handle that?

[Luxmum]

hello,
while using the internet today I discovered that my DH has been looking at various escort agency web sites.. we've just had a baby and obviously have not been having much sex what with the baby.. So how do i approach it? I trust him, but this is a much more worrying discovery than say usual porn - what if he wanted to visit? or else why would he look at the sites?? I thought we were doing fine, but now I am not sure at all.. Can anyone tell me what I should say??

Luxmum, you sound like you are being very reasonable about this and that's a good starting point. Sit him down sometime when you have time and say "Dh, I really love you and I trust you a lot. I was looking in the internet history for something today and I saw a couple of sites that worried me a bit" say what they are and then say "can we talk about this because I love you and you mean a lot to me".

No accusations, no histrionics just calmness and reasoning.

Good luck

Good advice by hockeypuck. Stay calm and just ask him why those sites were on the internet history.

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