Around a year ago I suspected my OH was having an affair with a work colleague after denying many times I had enough evidence to suggest it was in fact true (he was adamant they hadn’t slept together etc, But were getting too close), OH left his job and had gotten a new one. Recently he’s been mentioning someone who works there (he’s even changed his shift over for when she’s on as she’s apparently a better manager 🤔). He’s been somewhat distant again. 2 weeks ago he randomly took a days overtime at work (he already works 5 days of the week , night shifts) which I then believed. I had a look at his pay slip and there are no more extra hours on. It shows a weekly breakdown and he’s contracted 30 hours a week, on the 1st-8th of October it shows only 15 hours (he’s had no time off I know of) and the week after (he supposedly worked overtime) it’s showing up as normal hours no extra. He also came home with a pink lighter to which I said ‘oh where did this come from’ he went quiet and said ‘just someone from work’. I questioned him on the hours to which he said that they’d forgot to put a whole days wage on (and some from the beginning of the month 🤨).