I don't have time to post properly about this but jeez my dh is getting right up my nose and we tried to Have A Talk but he acted like I had browbeaten him into it - well I had, because his solution is Ignore It and It'll Go Away meanwhile I'm getting more and more pissed off and depressed
and really, we've been here many, many times in the past and our relationship is usually very very good, it's just having had the baby and dh's job and his study is putting a lot of strain on us right now
and I just needed to have a rant, get it off my chest, because we've solved nothing and tomorrow it's back into the whirl of the week when we never get 5 minutes to chat let alone sort this shit
stay tuned, dear readers, I shall be back asking for your advice tomorrow...