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My asshole fiance is mean to me when I'm ill

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Mamap93 · 14/09/2020 00:08

so i have had tonsillitis for 3 days and been completely bed ridden unable to get out of bed or I throw up. So understandably I have been abit moody and snappy just because I havent been sleeping or eating or anything really. Not to mention I have had a scan earlier in the week which needs to be investigated which is stressing me out completely! And I've fallen out with my mom and my kids have had to come out of school because they had temperatures this week so pretty shit week, i would let ny partner off if this was the first time he was mean to me when I was ill but its not, everytime I'm ill he speaks to me like crap leaves me without checking if in okay shouts at me like im vile tells me im horrible just adds to the list of things I already have going on his such an arse hole, question is does anyone else experience this??

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newnameforthis123 · 14/09/2020 00:11

So don't let him off this time.

Call off the wedding, he sounds fucking horrible.

Why would you want to stay with such a vile man?

Anordinarymum · 14/09/2020 00:13

Are your children his? I would not be considering marrying someone so selfish and mean

BitOfFun · 14/09/2020 00:15

I think lots of women have arsehole fiancés, and husbands, unfortunately. They are not happy people with lives you would aspire to.

Get rid, if you have any sense.

Sakurami · 14/09/2020 00:19

Wtf?? What an arsehole!! My ex never understood me being ill because he is stoic but he wouldn't be deliberately nasty.

I would seriously consider my relationship. What would happen if in the future you had a serious illness? Surely you would want your husband to be helpful and sympathetic

Regularsizedrudy · 14/09/2020 00:38

So why are you marrying them?

SoulofanAggron · 14/09/2020 00:40

asshole fiance

This should be a contradiction in terms. You shouldn't want to marry an asshole. He sounds like an abusive wanker. Bin him off.

Smallsteps88 · 14/09/2020 00:44

So maybe don’t marry him?

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