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How long did it take your ex partner to give up...

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Puppy72 · 13/09/2020 19:10

On trying to get you back and also contact for your child.. I'm hoping my exP becomes an absent father because he'll bring nothing but misery into my daughters life.

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anditgoeson · 13/09/2020 19:53

2 years to give up on me, 4 to give up on the kids. It's not good for them though so if there's a chance he could be a good Dad it might be worth trying.

I dont know your personal circumstances though so I hope things work out for you and good luck.

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Puppy72 · 13/09/2020 20:07

My daughter has already gone through the emotions of feeling abandoned which was heartbreaking but I'm her constant so she knows wherever she needs she'll get from me. I want him to give up on us, he's not capable of being a father (abuse, extreme DV)

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Annabellerina · 13/09/2020 21:27

A year to give up on me and 2 to give up on our kids.

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Puppy72 · 14/09/2020 00:03

Good riddance I say x

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