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Do you expect commitment/relationship after 3 months of dating?

28 replies

katiie3 · 11/08/2020 15:48

Hi guys

There are so many different views to this, but generally speaking from people who have had relationships, by 3 months of dating, what do you expect?

I personally find it quite draining to continually “date” the same person for months without any idea if you will go into a relationship.

How do you bring it up in convo by this point?

What would you accept or not accept by this point whilst dating?

OP posts:
fuckoffannoying · 12/08/2020 15:49

Yes I would expect commitment. Probably earlier than that tbh, like 6-8 weeks.

Dazedandconfused10 · 12/08/2020 18:19

Meh I'm 6 months in and still no closer to commitment but these are strange times. Things will change. I'm just going with the flow. I'd like commitment but I'm not going to get it right now, we've discussed it and I'm probably being played but hey ho.

Onemansoapopera · 13/08/2020 00:15

I'm nearly six years in and married three and still cant quite commit to living with dh - we still live an hour apart! So I think commitment is so completely subjective but I would probably expect exclusivity by 3 months certainly.

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