ds calling my mum "mum"

[nappyaddict]

would you be upset?

or AIBU to be getting upset over this?

i don't think it's the fact he calls her mum - he calls everyone that. i think it's the fact she answers to it. i think she should be saying no, it's grandma. but she says it doesn't matter if he's going to call her mum she's not going to ignore him.

My ds does not have a dad, apart from the gas man, the post man, dp/s dad and d'ps brother.
no offence, but I think they are too young to get hung up on this.
Im ds's mum and he will know this is not just any label soon enough.
Please don't worry about it, they know who 'YOU' are never mind your 'label'

Shite, I just re read my post.
DS has never seen/heard from natural dad.
he just calls anyone dad, sorry!!!!

Shit fuck shit,
I don't mean he just calls anyone dad!!
He calls DPs dad 'dad' cos dp calls him it, and dp's brother dad, cos dp's brothers son calls him dad (obv).
soooo complicated, christ ahhh