The last 4 years of my life has been a lie

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I’ve never been morendevastated and I know he doesn’t deserve my tears but I don’t think I can face the reality of what my life will be now. I feel sick. How is it possible to be so incredibly blind?

Do you want to talk about what’s happened?

Sorry you are in pain

The lies are the worst thing. . Whatever your DP has done, they were clearly intent on covering it up, so it’s not on you for being blind, it’s on them for being a liar.

U ok hun?

Assuming the rotter has been having an affair?

Sorry you are going through this.

I know it seems awful atm and might be hard for a while but you'll be better without a lying sack of shit in your life. At least, in the longterm.

Try to focus on the practical stuff rn and dont beat yourself up too much, many a wise woman has been a fool for a man. People cant read minds afterall. What matters is what you do now that you know.

Do you want to talk about what happened?