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Letter to my ex twat of a husband

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SissyLongStockings · 17/06/2020 19:46

Dear Twathead
I have just recieved your solicitors letter with your list of demands over our Dc.
Since you have changed your mind 1000 times over what 'we' are apparently doing because that is the manipulating piece of lying filthy piece of shit you are i will make it clear.
I have been more than accomadating to your ever changing demands and now quite simply there is only two things to be said. FUCK OFF!!! You will never bully, intimidate, manipulate me again and to use our Dc to your own ends is fucking disgusting. You left me and them with fuck all now you think you can demand whatever you like. I couldnt give a shit who your new bit is. Wont be long and you will be treating her the same way. I hate you. Your a liar, manipulater.
See you in court Cunt.

Feel a lot better now

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FreedomBird · 17/06/2020 19:51

I hope you feel better.

I am also a member of the Stupid Bastard Ex Husband Club

TheresGotToBeMoreToLife · 17/06/2020 19:53

I have one of those too. Grey rock as soon as you can. Mine thrives on any kind of reaction from me.

CrowCat · 17/06/2020 19:54

I just wrote a very long email in response to my ex twat who emailed to say he misses me, even though he has a new bit of fluff. I didn't send it, my silence will be far worse for him, but bloody hell it felt great to write it all down. I'm saving it in my drafts to refer back to if he ever tries to charm me again.

SissyLongStockings · 17/06/2020 19:54

Seething right now

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Florist1970 · 17/06/2020 19:56

A heartfelt well done you . Wish I sent that to my twat

krkw · 17/06/2020 20:03

@SissyLongStockings

Dear Twathead I have just recieved your solicitors letter with your list of demands over our Dc. Since you have changed your mind 1000 times over what 'we' are apparently doing because that is the manipulating piece of lying filthy piece of shit you are i will make it clear. I have been more than accomadating to your ever changing demands and now quite simply there is only two things to be said. FUCK OFF!!! You will never bully, intimidate, manipulate me again and to use our Dc to your own ends is fucking disgusting. You left me and them with fuck all now you think you can demand whatever you like. I couldnt give a shit who your new bit is. Wont be long and you will be treating her the same way. I hate you. Your a liar, manipulater. See you in court Cunt.

Feel a lot better now

👍👍 it's great when you get to a point where you see through them and can start calling them out on it
crimsonlake · 17/06/2020 20:19

Write it and do not send it. Take back the power and do respond, it drives them crazy.

CrowCat · 17/06/2020 20:30

My ex twat will be going bonkers because I haven't responded to his email. I feel all powerful at the minute Grin

Fairycake2 · 17/06/2020 23:27

Brilliant email, well done! Although probably best just left as a draft. Hope you feel better for writing it down

peonyfairy03 · 17/06/2020 23:47

Hope you feel better wish I had done that. My ex has now split from women he left me for, she’s taking him to cleaners and she able to buy a lovely new house because when we split and he took everything now she taking everything.I guess it’s karma sad that she is able to start again buy a house when I ended up in a bed sit with his children

SissyLongStockings · 18/06/2020 03:56

@peonyfairy03
Thats horrible im really sorry that happened to you. It takes a strong woman. Well done you for pushing forwardFlowers

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Florist1970 · 25/06/2020 06:57

@peonyfairy03
You matter to your kids, not him You are there, whether it's a bedsit or palace. You are awesome and amazing and100% the better parent.

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