Firstly, I know a few people can be quite harsh about these kind of things when commenting. I'm not one of the "cool wife and girlfriends" who will let certain things happen
Anyway, in my previous 10 year relationship I was cheated on, I found out, and left him.
I entered into my next relationship 2 years later. We've been together for nearly 3 years. I've often seen him looking at certain things on his phone (women, porn) I know porns a touchy subject on here, but it's not for me and I don't like that he does it, he knows I don't, and he'll do what he does when I'm not here. But my biggest issue is his attitude towards women. He constantly stares at women when we are out together. He denies this but I'm not blind. I picked him up from work last night and on the way home and we saw an attractive woman. I've never seen anyone's head turn so sharply to look. To cut a long story short, I told him if he continues doing this kind of shit, he's gone. I don't know if I was right to say it, but I told myself after my last relationship there's not way I'm standing for any disrespect in that way. I'm just disgusted he lacks that much respect for me he does this? People might say oh he's a man they are visual creatures, NO, I don't agree, surely he should at least control himself when he's with me?