What attracted you to your partner? And is it still there?

[charliecatthenonsmoker]

Just curious! My attraction to my dp was mostly because I thought he was a sexy bloke and a nice guy. 8 years later I still fancy him, although not in the same quick get your knickers off way and he still is a nice bloke but OMG he doesnt half get on my nerves sometimes...obviously I didnt see those things at first though...how about you?

am in suspenders here now

i shall never divulge...it wasn't that bad anyway...

i'm just a pussy...oh god, wrong word, argh

suspenders and nothing else??? you saucetrel you!

He's very tall, which I liked. And he's not got any shorter! Also, really liked the way he smelled, which I know sounds repulsive. And he was a wonderful father - he already had a daughter. That certainly hasn't gone away or lost its lustre over the years.

titter

look sophable just tell us if his veinage matches all over and then tell us about the veins on his hands OK?

but aloha what about his veins?????????

sw !!!

is veinage a technical term? like girth? [runs out of the room to hide her face behind hands in a corner]

OK it's my bedtime now, so I shall take my lowbrow comments with me and leave the floor open for serious romantic posings

goodnight

you see? i join in the rude shenanigins and she goes to bed...never again

yes they are both technical terms employed by the ture coinisseur (sp?) are they not spacemonkey?

oh yes, "veinage" and "girth" are terms well known to me

It was definatley dh's looks at first - green eyes, huge grin and body to die for. But what really reeled me in was that it took me 2 weeks to nail him! Worth the wait though. 6 years on he's still sexy as hell. Being a fitness instructor / martial artist type I love the fact he makes me feel all puny and girly - as i'm over 6 foot that's quite an achievement .

Cough Splutter...this threads changed direction!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

When I first saw dh he was in the toilets (the ladies!) in a club, touching up his lipstick in the mirror (no mirror in the mens - it was a bit of a dive). He had dyed black spikey hair, eyeliner, lipstick, was dressed all in black and had teaspoons dangling in the laces of his Para boots. And yes, I fancied the pants off him

He doesn't make my heart race anymore (sadly) but I have to say he's a lot better turned out these days!

Marthamoo - if you are looking for a bit of something to get the race back I could introduce you to my brother. He's got the lipstick etc, and am sure you could come to some arrangement about the cutlery!

ROFL at this thread.

Has cheered me up, I was feelig pretty cr*p and now am laughing.
Thanks!

Poo2 - ooh, I don't have the energy these days for heart racing and all that lusty stuff - I am far too old and staid

Marthamoo - probably a good thing. He'd have to borrow some of my mum's spoons and don't think she'd like it !

His evil sense of humour, his gorgeous red hair and his Rick Astley style raincoat... (well it was 1989....)

I found him danfgerously atractive, and so arrogant but admired his ideas. when I got to know him better I realised there was a lovely caring parson behind his "womaniser" reputation, which was only that... a reputation... He makes me laugh as much as he exasperates me but 7 yrs on, I'm still convinced that he is THE one.

hi i was atrracted to my mans eyes they are this big blue luscious things with the longest eyelashes i have ever seen. but yes charliecatthenonsmoker i do know what ya mean but one look in his eyes and all is forgiven

You saucy minxes, i was quite shocked there for a moment! Pure and innocent as i am...

I used to fantasise about dp's hairy chest, but now i am sick to death of hoovering hairs from everywhere, its like living with a permanantly moulting dog! He was good with dd, though when we moved in together couldnt be a*sed with night wakings and things, and i have to wait hours if he says hes going to make me a coffee. But other that that i do still fancy him and we generally get on really well, he's even let me have a lie in today and brought me coffee in bed, even though he had to go to college this morning.