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Do I ring/text again or do I wait? This dating thing is a minefield

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Upsadaisy · 18/09/2007 10:03

Met this guy and went for a date we got on really well. After date theres been lots of texts and a conversation or two over phone (he travels with work so no 2nd date organised as yet).
The night before last he texted but seemed diffrent but by the end was back to normal then yesterday he rang but my kids were shouting so he said he would call back later. He didn't......so I rang him about 10pm with no answer. I sent a text about 11pm but no reply. Now in my rationale mind I feel I should not contact him again waiting for him to get intouch with me but my unrationale mindset is that I really like the guy if theres a problem/he has concerns I would like to know so I'm thinking of texting him this morning......but is that too needy.....lol It is isn't it?. I hate this dating haven't done it for many moons. Advice please oh wise ones lol

OP posts:
warthog · 20/09/2007 09:13

you've made no commitments. if he asks, don't lie, but otherwise until you've moved the relationship beyond a few dates to a more consistent footing, you're well within your rights to play the field.

enjoy

Upsadaisy · 20/09/2007 09:15

Thank you ladies....my conscience is cleared lol

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lou33 · 20/09/2007 09:24

i just stack up the dates and say nothing to any of the others

i figure if i like them enough to see them again i can always cancel someone else, and if i dont then i have another night to look forward to

am having a bit of a break from it all tho, as it's getting a bit dull

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