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Do I tell my ex in with someone new?

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Jadegkeaney · 09/04/2020 09:25

So this is a bit messy.. I was with my ex for nearly 10 years. We actually got married last year which I was really unsure about and looking back yes I shouldnt have done it but felt too much pressure to. So I broke things off beginning of February I had enough and no longer loved him the way I should and felt I deserved to be treated better .

I have met someone new who is amazing! We have known each other nearly a year as we were friends before and things have moved quickly we are expecting a baby end of the year.

Me and my ex have property together which he is still living in and we are both making mortgage payments. He is buying me out soon I hope!

I dont want him to find out I'm with someone through someone else or seeing us together. Should I just tell him? Is it too soon? I want to be open and want things to be civilised which it has been so far. Any advice would be appreciated x

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Reallynowdear · 09/04/2020 09:44

Do you mean you split up with your husband February 2020 or 2019?

If 2020, it probably is too soon to tell him, especially as there's no possible chance of anyone seeing you together due to lockdown.

Reallynowdear · 09/04/2020 09:47

Sorry, misses the bit about your baby, in that case you should tell him.

Jadegkeaney · 09/04/2020 10:12

@reallynowdear I'm about 10 week so still early. And yes we were on/off for few months but by feb 2020 I moved out.

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