Whenever i challenge he tells me to stop moaning but im just asking

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I think he is abusivs. But he makes me feel crazy.

Im really alone. Please, from what i said, am i crazy?

Could you give some examples of what's going on?

Hi OP. Would you be comfortable giving us a list of behaviours you think are abusive so we can help?

No, you're not crazy.

We can tell nothing from your post OP, you need to give examples

Highly unlikely you're crazy though x

If you need some reassurance you need to give more details.
But... when someone says they feel like they are going crazy, it's often down an abuser.
If you want some proper reassurance then I suggest you call Womens Aid and discuss it with them.
Or give us more details and we may be able to help a bit more.

Hope you're ok OP

I suspect he's gaslighting you, making you think you're crazy when you're not. But you need to give us an example.

Hi OP. You do need to give examples for better assessment.

However, in my experience, by the time a woman is driven to ask such a question on a forum like MN, it's usually after months or weeks of gaslighting and abuse. Usually, the initial examples are relatively minor, but the overwhelming response from other women pointing out that they're nonetheless completely not okay sees other examples coming out, which are often even more gobsmacking than the ones before.

So of course, I cannot judge based on your OP. But I'm inclined to think there's a problem. Please seek help if you don't feel you can post details here.